Welcome to Through the Lens of Healing – a space where relational nuances and subtleties are explored. Here, we are not evaluating communicated words or actions in a relational dynamic. We are instead looking at the intention behind those spoken words or actions. In doing so, we are looking at gathering a more complete and probably truer picture of the relational framework or situation. My interest in this perspective originates from my own finely-tuned awareness that catches what others overlook – subtle shifts in tone, fleeting expressions, unspoken tensions, and hidden meanings. Rather than reacting to only what is said,…
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What could you not accept, if you but knew that everything that happens, all events, past, present, and to come, are gently planned by One Whose only purpose is your good? ~A Course in Miracles This quote from A Course in Miracles speaks directly to the realm I inhabit as an intuitive observer. The space where meaning gathers before it becomes visible. If events are gently planned for our good, then the emotional crosscurrents, the pauses in conversation, and the inconsistencies between words and energy are not random noise; they are signals within a larger coherence. If there is an…
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When you want what’s inside of you more than what’s outside of you, you will have it all. ~Alan Cohen I appreciate this succinct insight from Alan Cohen. When you want what is inside of you more than what is outside of you, the subtle signals you pick up – the emotional weather, the pauses, the inconsistencies, the unspoken needs – stop pulling you off center. Instead of being driven to resolve, soothe, or strategize around every external disturbance, you begin to anchor in your own clarity, integrity, and peace. The unseen currents are still there, but they no longer…